This therefore made me to have a second thought about it and decided to research and know much better about this day.After years of Research I saw It worth Sharing the Idea and the knowledge I got to others that might have the same questions I had.
History Behind Valetines.
Its Long and Wide know for more than 15 Millions years ago that February is the month of Romance,there is a lot of history based on the origin of Valentines day.Just to give you a hint - A popular hagiographical account of Saint Valentine of Rome states that he was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. According to legend, during his imprisonment, he healed the daughter of his jailer, Asterius.
An embellishment to this story states that before his execution he wrote her a letter signed "Your Valentine" as a farewell.From That little hint we all see that It started with a love letter,Until to date letters and cards are widely used.
Why Do We Have Valentines.
1.Showing Love
The main reason for valentines is to show that you do love someone.The doubt that you have feelings for certain people is broken out during this day.Its live and clear that sometimes we can love but showing it off becomes the most difficult problem on earth.This is the day that you can never be Imprisoned by any law on earth to show your crush that you do love her/him.
2.Proving that you Love
Loving and proving that you love are two different thing.If you can love someone and you can't prove It,Its just like writing with an empty pen.For your partner/lover to know that you do love her/him you need to prove that you indeed do.This will promote the trust on you and generate more feeling for you.
3.Obtaining the Feeling that you are loved.
Its a great honor for someone to know that he/she is loved.Psychologically its proven that it has a positive Impact mentally.
4.Promoting Peace
Love and hatred are two opposite thing and can never go alongside each other.February being a day of Love so do peace happiness and many other positive feelings.
People That Can make your Valentine.
1.Family Member
Be It In Good terms or not,You Father and mother worth being your Valentines.Brothers or sister also means something special in your life.Its very Important to Include them In your thoughts during this moment of life.
2.Relatives
Some relatives worth even more than Love itself,be it Uncle,cousins,Grandparents Aunts e.t.c They Deserve special treatment maybe because they are the best we can Afford.
3.Friends
Bet me you got special friends,I believe not all your friends are special to you but there are those who you can hear their voices when you are reading their text.Making your best friends as your valentines is something fashionable recently.
4.Lovers
This is field where It all belongs.The core agenda of valentine,the secret between what make the moon smile and the sun hot.That one special someone that is the reason for your heartbeat every after 3 seconds.That special person whose Image has never faded since the first time you meet,That one special someone who worth fighting for to the grave they deserve to be the main Agenda of this day,the only star in the day and the only fish in Pacific ocean.
Valentines Expectations
Its expected during valentine you show that you love and care.This can be demonstrated by either;
-Words of Mouth - Heartedly speaking real and romantic words that comes from within your heart and expression showing you do mean them to your valentine.
-Text Messages - Due to geographical distances Its expected to send your feeling even by texts,cards or letters,Wall post on Social Media or Flowers,Actually they all mean something worth appreciable.
-Money isn't of great importance although its necessary.I do believe that real love doesn't have a price but we leave in a society that everyone believe that money is the soap of the soul,If its what makes your valentine happy then take the privilege.Everything provided during this day is meant to bring happy memories never to be faded sooner enough.
Each and everyone of us is expected to promote Love peace and harmony during these times to yourself and others as well.We should dream of a world that is full of love.More love than air,Think of a situation where there could be no hatred and contemplate the results of our being on this earth,you will find yourself seeing the Power of love.What worth fighting for If not Love.
Other Activities to during Valentines
In short if this day isn't your day and all doesn't go as planned make sure you try and do what you like the most,something Interesting that will shade off your boredom.This can be like ;
-Chatting with people
-Playing computer games
-Having a ride to somewhere special
-Watching Romantic Series e.t.c
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